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What to Expect When You’re Expecting… an IUD (Awake)
Curious or nervous about getting an IUD? You’re not alone. As a nurse who assists with insertions every week, I’ve seen everything from mild cramps to “was that it?” This guide walks you through what really happens, how to prepare, and how to make it as comfortable as possible, no TikTok horror stories required.
Oct 128 min read


Interview: Talking Doxy-PEP and STI Prevention with Hey Fella’s Dr Cris
Curious about Doxy-PEP? This post breaks down what doxycycline post-exposure prophylaxis is, how it works, who might benefit, and how it fits into a smart, stigma-free sexual health toolkit with insights from Dr Cris Quitral, Medical Director at LGBTQ+ health service Hey Fella.
Sep 25 min read


Balls to the Wall: A Totally Queer Guide to Checking Your Testicles
Testicular self-exams might sound awkward or scary, but they’re quick, easy and lifesaving. Whether you’re cis, trans or non-binary and have testicles, knowing what your normal feels like means you can spot changes early. This queer-friendly guide explains why monthly checks matter, how to do them, what’s normal, and offers tips for managing dysphoria confidently.
Aug 215 min read


MPOX 101: What Queer Folks Need to Know Without the Shame Spiral
Mpox isn’t sexy (but community care is.) It’s no longer an obscure illness, showing up in queer spaces worldwide. Learn what it is, how it spreads, the symptoms to watch for, and how to protect yourself without shame or fear. From vaccines to safer sex, we’ve got the facts to keep the fun and ditch the stigma.
Aug 65 min read


Interview: Talking NoFap and Male Sexual Health with Healthy Male’s Tim Moss
NoFap promises boosted testosterone and superhuman focus by abstaining from masturbation, but what does science really say? Associate Professor Tim Moss from Healthy Male breaks down the myths and facts behind semen retention. We explore why this internet movement appeals to young men, the lack of scientific evidence supporting its claims, and how healthy sexual behaviour matters more than extreme abstinence.
Jul 216 min read


Semen Retention Is Not a Superpower (and NoFap Isn’t Feminist)
While researching for Men’s Health Week, I stumbled into the wild world of semen retention—where Reddit bros claim not ejaculating turns you into a genius alpha male. Spoiler: there’s zero scientific backing for most of it. The NoFap movement mixes pseudoscience, shame, and toxic masculinity, repackaged as “self-mastery.” Let’s bust some myths and talk real sexual health—queer, trans-inclusive, and totally free of cosmic sperm theories.
Jul 175 min read


How to Wash Your Bits (Without Wrecking Them)
Learn how to clean your bits without wrecking them. Queer and trans-inclusive, myth-busting, and refreshingly honest, because your genitals deserve care, not cupcakes or candles.
Jun 255 min read


Self-Collect, Self-Empower: Taking Charge of Your Cervical Health
Cervical screening could save your life, and self-collection makes it easier. If you're 25–74 with a cervix and have ever had sexual contact, you may be eligible. Use a simple swab to collect your own sample in private at a clinic. It's quick, accurate, and more comfortable for many. Talk to your GP or local clinic today.
Jun 184 min read


Men Get HPV Too: Here’s What You Need to Know
HPV isn’t just a “women’s health” issue. Men get it too. While prepping content for National Men’s Health Week, I realised how often guys are left out of the conversation. So I did some digging. This article breaks down how HPV shows up in men, why it matters and what you can do to protect yourself. No shame, no scare tactics, just real, useful info for anyone with a penis.
Jun 125 min read


Internal Condoms 101: Unknown, Unbothered, Underrated
"Internal condoms: a gender-inclusive option for safer queer sex, solo or partnered." The other day, someone casually asked me at work,...
Jun 85 min read


Syphilis Is Back, Babe: What the Queer Community Needs to Know
If you’ve been paying attention to sexual health news lately, you may have heard something surprising: syphilis is on the rise , and not...
Jun 54 min read


Cervical Screening & LGBTQIA+ Health: What You Need to Know
Earlier this year, I had the opportunity to assist with a self-swab cervical screening project at Sydney Mardi Gras 2025. It was a...
Jun 24 min read


U=U: What It Means for Our Queer Community
This week I had the pleasure of attending a recent webinar hosted by ASHM on PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis) and its role in supporting...
May 313 min read
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