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Interview: Talking Doxy-PEP and STI Prevention with Hey Fella’s Dr Cris
Curious about Doxy-PEP? This post breaks down what doxycycline post-exposure prophylaxis is, how it works, who might benefit, and how it fits into a smart, stigma-free sexual health toolkit with insights from Dr Cris Quitral, Medical Director at LGBTQ+ health service Hey Fella.
Sep 25 min read


Balls to the Wall: A Totally Queer Guide to Checking Your Testicles
Testicular self-exams might sound awkward or scary, but they’re quick, easy and lifesaving. Whether you’re cis, trans or non-binary and have testicles, knowing what your normal feels like means you can spot changes early. This queer-friendly guide explains why monthly checks matter, how to do them, what’s normal, and offers tips for managing dysphoria confidently.
Aug 215 min read


Have Your Say: New LGBTQIA+ Peer-Led Sexual Health Clinic in Western Sydney
Western Sydney, we’ve got a chance to shape a new peer‑led HIV & STI testing clinic. It’s quick, anonymous, and all about creating a space where our community feels seen and safe. Have your say today.
Jul 301 min read


6 Bottoming Myths Worth Busting
Bottoming can be blissful, powerful, and wildly misunderstood. From porn-fuelled myths to locker room nonsense, there's a lot of crap (pun intended) out there. Whether you're curious, cautious or a seasoned pro, this guide busts six common bottoming myths with facts, humour and zero shame. Because your butt deserves the truth. And probably some fibre.
Jul 287 min read


Interview: Talking NoFap and Male Sexual Health with Healthy Male’s Tim Moss
NoFap promises boosted testosterone and superhuman focus by abstaining from masturbation, but what does science really say? Associate Professor Tim Moss from Healthy Male breaks down the myths and facts behind semen retention. We explore why this internet movement appeals to young men, the lack of scientific evidence supporting its claims, and how healthy sexual behaviour matters more than extreme abstinence.
Jul 216 min read


Semen Retention Is Not a Superpower (and NoFap Isn’t Feminist)
While researching for Men’s Health Week, I stumbled into the wild world of semen retention—where Reddit bros claim not ejaculating turns you into a genius alpha male. Spoiler: there’s zero scientific backing for most of it. The NoFap movement mixes pseudoscience, shame, and toxic masculinity, repackaged as “self-mastery.” Let’s bust some myths and talk real sexual health—queer, trans-inclusive, and totally free of cosmic sperm theories.
Jul 175 min read


Men Get HPV Too: Here’s What You Need to Know
HPV isn’t just a “women’s health” issue. Men get it too. While prepping content for National Men’s Health Week, I realised how often guys are left out of the conversation. So I did some digging. This article breaks down how HPV shows up in men, why it matters and what you can do to protect yourself. No shame, no scare tactics, just real, useful info for anyone with a penis.
Jun 125 min read
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