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Interview: Talking Doxy-PEP and STI Prevention with Hey Fella’s Dr Cris
Curious about Doxy-PEP? This post breaks down what doxycycline post-exposure prophylaxis is, how it works, who might benefit, and how it fits into a smart, stigma-free sexual health toolkit with insights from Dr Cris Quitral, Medical Director at LGBTQ+ health service Hey Fella.
Sep 25 min read


Balls to the Wall: A Totally Queer Guide to Checking Your Testicles
Testicular self-exams might sound awkward or scary, but they’re quick, easy and lifesaving. Whether you’re cis, trans or non-binary and have testicles, knowing what your normal feels like means you can spot changes early. This queer-friendly guide explains why monthly checks matter, how to do them, what’s normal, and offers tips for managing dysphoria confidently.
Aug 215 min read


8 Ways Guys Can Share Better, More Respectful Intimacy With Trans Women
Want to blow a trans woman’s mind in bed? Show up curious, respectful, and a little filthy. Follow her cues, focus on her pleasure, and she’ll never forget you.
Aug 157 min read


Have Your Say: New LGBTQIA+ Peer-Led Sexual Health Clinic in Western Sydney
Western Sydney, we’ve got a chance to shape a new peer‑led HIV & STI testing clinic. It’s quick, anonymous, and all about creating a space where our community feels seen and safe. Have your say today.
Jul 301 min read


6 Bottoming Myths Worth Busting
Bottoming can be blissful, powerful, and wildly misunderstood. From porn-fuelled myths to locker room nonsense, there's a lot of crap (pun intended) out there. Whether you're curious, cautious or a seasoned pro, this guide busts six common bottoming myths with facts, humour and zero shame. Because your butt deserves the truth. And probably some fibre.
Jul 287 min read


How to Wash Your Bits (Without Wrecking Them)
Learn how to clean your bits without wrecking them. Queer and trans-inclusive, myth-busting, and refreshingly honest, because your genitals deserve care, not cupcakes or candles.
Jun 255 min read


Internal Condoms 101: Unknown, Unbothered, Underrated
"Internal condoms: a gender-inclusive option for safer queer sex, solo or partnered." The other day, someone casually asked me at work,...
Jun 85 min read


Syphilis Is Back, Babe: What the Queer Community Needs to Know
If you’ve been paying attention to sexual health news lately, you may have heard something surprising: syphilis is on the rise , and not...
Jun 54 min read


U=U: What It Means for Our Queer Community
This week I had the pleasure of attending a recent webinar hosted by ASHM on PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis) and its role in supporting...
May 313 min read
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